One of the most common question I get from readers or friends who are married is how to have a more harmonious relationship. Apparently, in these trying times and globalization has made life a bit more stressful, and a lot of couple gets affected with this. One of its manifestation is couple seems to argue more often. Allow me to share some Feng Shui tips on how to make a relationship more harmonious thru Feng Shui. But before that, allow me to share here that I believe one of the key factors in maintaining a strong relationship with your partner is to have an open communication, to be understanding, be humble, but at the same time know your self-worth. Being humble without knowing your self-worth will just subject to abuse.
In Feng Shui one can have the following cures to help maintain a harmonious relationship:
Have an image of an apple, preferably made of crystal, at the headboard of the couple’s bed. An apple is an Feng Shui symbol for harmony, having one that is beautiful and made of crystal will definitely help make the relationship better. I once recommended to a former officemate when I was still an employee. She was complaining that her husband is always hot tempered and they argue a lot. Told her to put a red apple (it has to be red) made of crystal on their headboard to ease the problem. She looked for one and followed my recommendation. She said that it worked and they seldom argue. In fact, when I accidentally bumped into the couple in a mall in Makati City, the wife introduced me to her husband and said, “He was the one who fixed our marriage by asking me to put a red apple crystal on our headboard!”
Make sure you both regularly wear your wedding ring. Wedding rings are not just symbols or signs that one is married, wearing your wedding rings brings in some harmonious energy. If you are wearing it and still constantly finds yourself to be arguing a lot, try to tie a red string and a yellow string on the ring. It should bring a fresh harmonious chi.
Use the power of the DOUBLE HAPPINESS SYMBOL or SIGN. The double happiness symbol or sign is one of the most powerful Feng Shui charm or symbol that brings in happiness and harmony to couples, especially to those who are seeing that their relationship is starting to get sour. About a couple of years ago a lady contacted me to ask for help in saving their marriage. Apparently, the husband has started to live in another room in their house, and has broached the topic of moving out and filing for an annulment. She said that she believes that they both still love each other, but wanting to have child which has been elusive to them, and the meddling of their families, and also pressure from work has made them turn against each other. It was gradual but they just seem unable to reach out to each other. Told her to get herself and her husband a double happiness jewelry, and also clarified that it might be better if she’ll get something that is specifically designed for both of them. She agreed, and so I designed one for both of them, they both got a pendant. They now are one of the happiest couple I have ever seen. They now also have a son, which was conceived after they got a Vajrapani Ruel.
Although not a Feng Shui charm, having a TRADITIONAL SUTRA AMULET (TSA), should also help a lot. More recently, a daughter requested for my help. Her parents are not quarreling but they seem cold with each other. She feels that her parent being married with each other for 30 years has simply made themselves grown tired of each other. She wants something to help rekindle their relationship. She said she used to feel that she and her siblings are the luckiest children in the world because they have such a loving parents, that is also obviously very in love with each other, and so seeing that her parents has gone cold with each other makes her really sad. Told her to get a TSA, she did and slowly she noticed that they seem to grow concern with one another again, until his father surprised her mother with a trip, just the two of them!!!
One of 5 copies of the Avatamsaka Sutra (Kuan Yin Bodhisattva Chapter) that’s available here in the Philippines.
These are just one copy each of the very limited copies sent to me by my Guru Lama of the THE SUTRA OF THE PAST VOWS OF THE KSITIGARBHA BODHISATTVA, THE DIAMOND OF PERFECT WISDOM SUTRA and THE MEDICINE BUDDHA SUTRA. Sutras are also used as very powerful amulets, that is why you will often old Buddhist Chinese houses has a copy of the Sutra on their altar though they might not be reciting the sutra itself.
This is a copy of the big and small THE DIAMOND OF PERFECT WISDOM SUTRA (traditional sutra amulet and sutra amulet) that my Guru Lama sent me. They are quite limited. I only have 10 of the big ones, and 7 of the small ones.
This is a copy of the traditional SUTRA OF THE PAST VOWS OF BODHISATTVA KSITIGARBHA that my Guru Lama sent me.
I hope that these simple recommendations will be helpful to anybody who finds their relationship in a bit of a turmoil.
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After discussing the different FENG SHUI TIPS FOR THE WORK PLACE (1 and 2), I now would like to share the different Taoist Deities or Immortals and Buddhas or Bodhisattvas who can help you with your career and work environment.
Some of the things that I’m going to mention here are things that I’ve discussed in the past, but I believe that they are worth repeating.
For me, one of the most powerful Taoist God who also happens to be a Chinese Buddhist Buddha is the ‘Great Sage, Equal of Heaven’, the Monkey God or Monkey King called Sun Wukong. I have written about Sun Wukong several times in various posts, but if you wish to know more about him you can read a post solely dedicated to Sun Wukong. But it is worth repeating here that Sun Wukong is a very good strategist, furthermore, one of his intrinsic qualities is that he is loyal to those who shows reverence to him and worship him. Having an image of Sun Wukong either as a tabletop image or pendant will give you a competitive edge in all your undertakings. Furthermore, Sun Wukong is also a very powerful protector so having his image will ensure that your chances of getting backstabbed or swindled are greatly minimize. But more than that, Sun Wukong is also a very powerful wealth god so having his image will ensure good salary and help ensure career advancement.
Another powerful Taoist and Buddhist god is Kuan Kong (also called Guan Gong, Kuan Ti, or Guan Ti). Kuan Kong is a historical Bodhisattva and Taoist immortal. I’ve also written intensively about Kuan Kong, and you can know more about him by reading my previous post about Kuan Kong. His difference with Sun Wukong is that Kuan Kong is more appropriate for people who are in power or significant position. But other than that they’re almost the same in qualities, attributes, and the type of blessing that they bestow upon those who tap into their powers.
If your workplace environment is very tense and needs a lot of harmony, you should have the image of the Maitreya Buddha, better known as the Happy Fat Buddha. The Maitreya Buddha, will ensure that there is harmony in an otherwise tense and stressful environment. You can either place an image of the Maitreya Buddha on your table or wear one as a pendant. The Maitreya Buddha will also help ensure that you focus on the positive aspects of a ‘problem’. Furthermore, the Maitreya Buddha is also a very powerful wealth god, so he can ensure good money luck. If you want to know more about the Maitreya Buddha please read my previous post by clicking here.
Just a word of caution, I mentioned here several times that you could put the images of Kuan Kong, Sun Wukong, and Maitreya Buddha on your table. However, you have to ensure that when on your table that you don’t ‘show disrespect’ by constantly hitting them with your papers, calculators, etc. If possible, it is better to place them somewhere that they won’t be disturbed.