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It’s Was His Time

Published Mayo 11, 2017 by jptan2012

Today is a very sad day.

Today, I, together with my family had to bury a nephew.

Today I had to reckoned and face the truth that when it’s your time then it it’s your time.

My cousin’s son who grew up with us; who grew up with my nephews from my sister; whom we treat like our own went on a trip last Friday with some of his friends. He had an accident and was rushed to the hospital where he was declared to be in a coma.

He passed away last Sunday.

He was protected with the Vajrapani Ruel and Kalachakra pendant.

He was not wearing them.

He was just having fun.

He fell from a 7 feet high ledge.

He went to a coma.

He died.

He was born in 2003 in the year of the Sheep.

His chart shows that he should be careful this 2017.

His mom got him the Vajrapani Ruel and the Kalachakra pendant.

He wasn’t wearing or carrying them with him because his friends will tease him about it. I wanted to blame his friends for teasing him, if only they know how to respect the belief of other people they would not have not tease him. My nephew will not have to be forced not to wear them. But the truth is it’s not their fault.

He wasn’t wearing them because his father understands how embarrassing it was to be teased so he agreed to keep them from him until he come back from the trip. It was easy to blame him. I was blaming him. But my friend BM pointed out it’s not the time to blame anybody, and remember he is the father. But the truth is it’s really not his fault because he simply grew up not believing in Feng Shui. It’s ingrained on him even if his wife, my cousin, practices Feng Shui.

He wasn’t wearing them because my nephew wasn’t wearing them because peer pressure takes precedence over his belief in Feng Shui. He grew up with us and so maybe it was my fault. I wasn’t able to ingrained on him the importance of Feng Shui and of amulets. But BM said and my Guru Lama said it was nobody’s fault. It temporarily shook me and though I never questioned the truth about Feng Shui and amulets and Buddhism, I immediately wondered whether when he was growing up I did enough to teach him about Feng Shui, about Taoism, about Buddhism. But it was nobody’s fault. He stayed with us until he was 11 years old.

He was 13 turning 14 next month.

He was young.

He can be a little stubborn at times, but he is a good boy.

He was just having fun, supervised by several adults.

He fell only about 7 feet.

He went into coma.

He passed away.

He left us wondering why is it sometimes this world can be cruel.

But it was his time. Maybe he wasn’t wearing the amulets because he was meant to go already.

Still it’s painful and it shook us to our core.

We will miss him.

We will have to learn to live without him.

We buried him today.

It was his time.

 

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The Bazi Is Never Linear!

Published Oktubre 19, 2016 by jptan2012

One of the most common questions I usually get is whether Bazi Chart or Paht Chee Chart of a person determines the luck or life of person as if it is set in stone.

After more than 700 articles, it is quite difficult to determine whether this is something that I have written or even simply mentioned before. But I believe it is worth writing about it now given that this is the most common question that I received from my readers and even friends.

The Bazi or Paht Chee is determined by getting the exact birthdate of a person, from it people who knows how to compute a Bazi will be able to determine what kind of life a person has or will have. Please note though that being familiar with Feng Shui doesn’t necessarily mean that one is also familiar with the Paht Chee, it is something much more difficult to learn. But for one to be able to do personal Feng Shui really well, one has to analyze the Bazi of a person.

One of the earliest article that I have written about is clarifying that our luck consists of mainly three things, and they are: HEAVEN’S LUCK, EARTH’S LUCK, and MAN’S LUCK.

Heaven’s Luck is basically determined by our birthdate or Paht Chee. This is who are our parents, siblings, where we are born, when we are born, personality and character. This is something that is basically what life has thrown to us. This is also basically karma.

Earth’s Luck is basically Feng Shui.

Man’s Luck is basically what we do with what is thrown to us. This is us. How we handle things, how we work things out, how we react to things.

If you’ll notice, Man’s Luck is in a way still dependent on Heaven’s Luck in a way that our personality is determined by Heaven’s Luck. But at the same time, these are the things that we can control. For example, you can be born in a poor family, but if you strive hard you might have a better life. True it might be more difficult for you but it certainly is not impossible.

Sometimes, these lucks mix. For example, I always say that the first line of defense is maintaining a positive outlook in life. When we consciously do that, that is man’s luck, the effect is Earth’s Luck.

Feng Shui is Earth’s Luck that needless to say also has an effect on Man’s Luck.

Displaying an image of a Buddha or Bodhisattva or Deities or Gods is made with a conscious effort by man, so in a way it is Man’s Luck. Then using as a cure it becomes Earth’s Luck but the help that comes in is basically Heaven’s Luck.

Using an amulet is also basically a combination of all three, although is predominantly Heaven’s Luck followed by Earth’s Luck.

Going back to the question whether a Bazi or Paht Chee is set in stone, and using the above argument, it becomes clear that it is not. However, things indicated in the Bazi or Paht Chee is never linear. It is not about a single path. There is one clear major path, but good Feng Shui students will tell you that there are minor paths.

Allow me to share with you the story about the mother of a reader. When I checked the chart of the mother, it shows that she will have an accident that may kill her. Most likely, it is man made accident, something violent and caused by a person with ill intent.

It is a strong indication in the chart meaning it is something that is surely will happen. This was confirmed both by my Feng Shui teacher and my Guru Lama. As a remedy, my reader got a Vajrapani Ruel and a gold Kalachakra pendant for her. Told them to be ready also because with the help of Feng Shui teacher we were able to narrow down the possible to within two weeks of the month September in 2015.

My reader’s mom, during daytime is usually left at home by herself. One day, her grandchild’s school was suspended, so it was an unusual day because somebody was with her in the house. This was in September. While the grandchild was playing he saw a man, or two men (he can’t be sure) (the grandchild was only 8 years old at that time) trying to break in to their house. Frightened he screamed for her grandma. Her grandma in a rush to go to her grandchild fell on the stairs and broke her leg.

What was indicated in her Bazi didn’t happen, at least not to the level it was indicated because with the Kalachakra and the Vajrapani Ruel, used as an Earth’s Luck interfere. The grandmother or mother of my reader still had to go through some accident, but not serious enough as indicated in her chart because she was protected.

Another story is about a man who according to his Bazi, which was reviewed by several Feng Shui masters – not less than 7 of them, indicates that he will grow up poor and as a meek employee all throughout his life, meaning he will never become a person of significance in the corporate world. Because of this his parents and later the guy himself did everything to turn this around. His parents started with Feng Shui (Earth’s Luck) and continuously plead the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas (Heaven’s Luck), and then when the man grew up, he continued to do both plus he worked really hard. Now the man lives a comfortable life.

So the answer is Bazi or Paht Chee is never linear.

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Spilling Salt Is A Sign of Bad Luck!

Published Setyembre 16, 2016 by jptan2012
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In the preceding post, I talked about the how salt is used as main and very essential ingredient in making the Catholic Church’s holy water.

Today, I would like to share with you another thing about salt.

Once, while having dinner with some High School friends, one of them accidentally spilled salt. I told him that spilling salt is a sign that bad luck is about to come, meaning a bad thing or bad things may soon happen. As I was about to proceed to tell him how to counter or stop the bad luck from happening, he sort of rudely told me that he is a Christian and that he don’t believes in such things. Another friend who knows my interest in Feng Shui signal for me to just keep quiet. Until now, I still don’t know whether I did the right thing.

For soon after that incident, that particular High School friend entered into a bad business and he almost lost everything. He was reminded of his encounter with me and asked me as to what he should do. Luckily, at that time the Vajrapani Ruel is already available and so he got one. Soon he started to put his business back and got back what he lost.

But the question is whether he can do anything when he spilled the salt to stop the bad luck? The answer is yes. He can be more cautious and be aware of the warning. He can also simply pinch a salt from the spilled salt and throw it over his shoulders while chanting OM AMI DEWA HRIH or OM AH HUM or OM MANI PADME HUM seven times. By doing that one can surely prevent the bad luck from happening or at the very least, it can help you from receiving the full impact of the bad luck.

Having said that, I would like to clarify that spilling salt doesn’t bring bad luck. Spilling salt signifies that bad luck may happen. So the bad luck is already there and is forthcoming, spilling salt serves as a warning.

 

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Chant – A – Mantra (1): A Reintroduction to the Wonderful Benefit of Chanting A Mantra!

Published Hulyo 5, 2016 by jptan2012

Today, I would like to start a new series about chanting mantras. I felt this is an important topic / series to write because a lot of my readers are hooked with getting amulets. I know that the Vajrapani Ruel enjoys a certain amount of popularity amongst my readers and it has garnered a lot of o personal testimonies attesting to its miraculous power and effectiveness. However, the sad truth is that the Vajrapani Ruel is quite pricey for a lot of people, and more than that it is also relatively quite limited in the sense that it is not forever that we can have it. Not to mention the difficulty in making it and smuggling it out of Tibet, which is under the Mainland Chinese (China) rule that doesn’t allow it to be made or be brought out. So if you have the Vajrapani Ruel, consider yourself to be very lucky.

But as I said, sometimes we are very caught up to having the Vajrapani Ruel that if can’t have it we sort of go into some sort of despair. That shouldn’t be the attitude because the truth is the Buddha Himself has given us enough tools to assist us in our daily life. We have the sutras and at the same times we have the mantras.

It was several years back since I first introduced the power of mantras to my readers, and I will not write about it again. If you are a new reader and is not familiar with the power of mantras, I suggest you revisit my old post about it entitled – MANTRA: THE INSTURMENT TO TAP THE POWER OF SYMBOLIC SOUND, SCRIPT, AND THOUGHT – to know more about it.

But what I would like to reiterate today is that chanting mantras, again like reciting the sutras, should be done comfortably loud. That is because of the same reasons that I have discussed in RECITE A SUTRA 6: WHY DO WE HAVE TO LOUDLY RECITE SUTRAS? However, more that the reason discussed in the preceding post, reciting it loudly also helps us get attuned with the Buddha or Bodhisattva whose mantra we are chanting.

Whenever we chant a mantra, it is like an offering to the Buddha or Bodhisattva whose mantra we are chanting, but at the same time it is also like a call for help and establishing a link or a ‘relationship’ with them.

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In chanting a mantra, it is best to be use a mala so that you can keep track of the number of times you’ve chanted a mantra.

Chanting a mantra can make wonders, and this blog has been testament to what are the powers of chanting a mantra can do. But now that I’m actively writing about it again, I hope to show you more of these wonderful miracles that simply chanting a mantra can do.

A lot of people are concern about properly pronouncing the mantra. I always say that they shouldn’t sweat it that much. Right pronunciation is important but it will come to you sooner or later, what is more important is the sincere heart in chanting the mantras. I suggest that you read the post entitled – A HERMIT AND A MONK: A LESSON IN RECITING YOUR MANTRA! – as to what Lama Zopa Rinpoche has to say about pronunciation of the mantras.

But what are the benefits of chanting a mantra:

  1. Protection.
  2. Wealth, financial, money blessings.
  3. Good health.
  4. Family luck and/or relationship luck.
  5. Happiness.
  6. Peace.
  7. Miracles will happen more frequently.

I also decided to write this series because the previous mantras that I have shared before are anchored on the Buddha or Bodhisattva, which is really the proper way to present a mantra. However, having a predominantly Christian reader, I felt this approach is not very effective in making you understand it. So I will present the mantras on a per need basis. And whenever possible I will still present stories, real personal testimonies of either readers or friends or families who have used the mantra. I will also present combination mantras for more effective and swifter results.

One last thing, simply chanting a mantra will have an effect, but remember, chanting it under deep meditative state give you the ultimate effectiveness.

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Lessons from a Feng Shui Charm Hoarder (2): Learn to See the Power of Kindness!

Published Marso 6, 2016 by jptan2012

In the first installment of the series called “Lessons From A Feng Shui Hoarder”, I talked about JM and how her friends tried to help her to do the right thing by encouraging her to get the Vajrapani Ruel amongst other amulets or Feng Shui charms so that she will straighten her life. As shared in that particular post, JM wanted to get powerful amulets to fulfill her heart’s desire. As encouraged by her friends, I will try to convince JM to get amulets that will help her straightened out her life. We made sure that we don’t lie to her, although we sometimes have to resort not directly contradicting her. As you can see, it all work out for the best, her boyfriend had the courage to end their relationship, and her husband still accepted her despite of the fact that JM claims that the baby she was carrying was that of her boyfriend. It was later proved that the boyfriend is sterile and that she was indeed still sleeping with her husband even she made it a point to tell all her friends that they have been living separately. She didn’t care whether she has 3 daughters, all she wanted was for her boyfriend to take her out of the country, and she is using her pregnancy to do just that. Unfortunately, that was the reason why she hoarded a lot of amulets, Feng Shui charms at that time. Primarily the Vajrapani Ruel.

As shown in that particular post, No amount of amulets, Feng Shui charms, or crystals can make your ‘evil’ or malicious wishes come true.

Today, allow me to share another part of the story of JM. As mentioned, JM’s friends were the one’s who contacted me because they want to help her. Since it was FSM who really knows me well, she was the one who contacted me and sort of worked with me to ensure that JM will have the right amulets so that she can straightened out her life. As shown in the first part of this post (LESSONS FROM A FENG SHUI HOARDER (1): ONE’S EVIL WISHES IS NOT MATCH TO THE POWER OF AMULETS!) by giving her the right amulets that she needs, no matter her heart wishes for something malicious, some would say evil, what really happened was really to her benefit. Now whether she will learn from it and use it for her own good is really up to her. But I believe that aside from the amulets that she got, she really owe it to her friends, especially to FSM that she didn’t had a broken family.

However, the sad truth is, aside from being thankful to her friends, when she was about to get into trouble in her company because diversion of funds for her personal use (this will be discuss more on the 3rd part of this series) she use FSM an escape goat. I won’t be able to go into details, but what JM failed to see here is that out of her selfishness and maybe bitterness because she didn’t get to go abroad with her boyfriend and make them believe that the baby she is carrying is that of his boyfriend, she suddenly turned against her friends, especially she was later told by FSM that some of the amulets are really for her to stop being physically and emotionally dependent on men other than her husband.

What she truly failed to see here is the kindness of her friends, and had she seen that kindness she would have also seen how much her friends could help her and even without amulets thru the help of her friends she can have better life.Kindness

So you see the second lesson is learn to see and accept the kindness of other people, sometimes it’s all you need and not a powerful amulet. Furthermore, JM continuous to be a lonely person because she destroyed her relationship with the true friends that she ever had. No amount of amulets can get you true friends if you are not a friend also.

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Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?

Published Pebrero 3, 2015 by jptan2012
Photo lifted from Google images.

Photo lifted from Google images.

Why bad things happen to good people? This is perhaps one of the most common questions that people ask me. Most recently a relative asked me this question also. In fact, in a lot of my emails or conversations with readers, especially lately where a lot of people has been requesting for what is the most powerful Buddhist amulet called Vajrapani Ruel, which in such a short time has enjoyed several personal testimonies like how a 47 – year – old single mother got the much needed financial help (VAJRAPANI RULE STORIES 4) and how a man got his land back after a 20 – year – old legal battle (VAJRAPANI RUEL STORIES 2), this is the question that people asked. It may come in different various statements, but at the end that is the most common question: WHY BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE?

The truth is there is no clear answer as to why this happen, but if you ask Buddhist monks, they all have similar answers. Buddhist monks will always tell you that if bad things happen to you, all you have to realized is that…

This is my karma.unfair1

I’ve repaid my karma.

It’ time to create new karma.

Also, I believe that all of us have to remember that not all bad things are bad, and not all good things are good. For example, you are healthy and rich, and you have so many wonderful friends that surround you. That is good, right?

Before you answer, let me continue. Then all of a sudden you got really sick, you have to be hospitalized and you started to lose your money and your friends. All of a sudden you are not very rich anymore. That is bad, right?

But, because of this, you begin to be more appreciative of the simple things, and most of all, you used to have (hypothetically) you have 1,000 friends before and that number is now down to a single true friend. Is that good or bad?

Smiling at People Helps Create Good Chi!

Published Nobyembre 27, 2014 by jptan2012

smiling2One thing I love about traveling is while waiting at the airport I get to write some blog article. This is the next few articles that’s going to be posted on this blog are all written at an airport and automatically posted via the scheduled posting feature.

Today, I would like to share with you how easy it is to create good chi for yourself and in the process for other people as well. The inspiration for this post was gathered from the fact that an elderly couple just smiled at me and it does made me feel a whole lot better. smiling

Try to make it a habit to smile at people, smile at your friends, family, helpers,employees and yes even to strangers. Smiling at people will give the recipient of the smile some good chi and it will instantly make them feel better. But more than that because you smiled at them, more often than not, they will smile back at you, and you will also receive some good chi.

I know that while smiling comes naturally to some people, more often than not it is a conscious effort. Even if it is a conscious effort and even if the original intention is selfish and wanting to get good chi it’s still bound to create some luck. And as you smile more often you’ll see that the initial selfish intention of wanting to get good chi will slowly pave way to a more sincere effort as you see how good it makes you feel and how in the end it makes everything seems to be a better.smiling 3

So smiling is literally affordable. How can it not be you don’t spend a single dime and it doesn’t zap your energy and take away a single second from you. So smile and create good chi and make the world better.

Who knows that smiling can be a feng shui tool.

 

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