No one wants a chaotic family life. I believe every person would want a happy, harmonious family and nobody would want a broken family. Of course, that is not to say that a family without a father or a mother is considered not a family, one may not be complete but still considered as a family as long as there is peace and harmony with in.
This is the reason why My, short for Mylene, contacted me. My is a 60-year – old mother of 4, all of them are adults now. According to My, they’re all successful and financially stable, even all her 4 kids are financially independent from them, and while all of them still lives with her, she said she felt like they’re all disconnected with each other. Her husband is always at his business and on weekends he usually plays golf with his friends. Her children, as mentioned still stays with them but they each have their own life. My said she tries her best to get the family reconnected with each other, however, despite of her efforts to come up with a regular Sunday dinners, they’re seldom complete and even then they seems don’t know what to talk about on the table, and there are times they end up fighting. This is what prompted her to get in touch with me and request for help.
I suggested that she gets the Avatamsaka Traditional Sutra Amulet, and after she got it, I didn’t hear from her again. That was several months ago. But I just got this message from her yesterday.
Note: The time of posting is usually not the time of writing.
Note: The Avatamsaka Traditional Sutra Amulet is also called Traditional Avatamsaka Sutra Amulet.
As you can see, in My’s own words she feels the significant improvement of her family relationship is due to the Avatamsaka Sutra or more importantly the Avatamsaka Traditional Sutra Amulet. But for me the surprise is the story about her daughter. During my talks with My she never mentioned about her daughter who happens to be a single mom. But she did asked me about her friend’s daughter, which happens to be her daughter, I think at that time she was not comfortable discussing it.
There are two reasons why My should celebrate and I think she is indeed celebrating these miracles. She acknowledges that they still have to work on their relationship as a family, but she knows she did get some miracles.
One of 5 copies of the Avatamsaka Sutra (Kuan Yin Bodhisattva Chapter) that’s available here in the Philippines.
Not only is her family starting to have a better relationship but also more than that she is also happy that her daughter might have found her true love. Her romantic relationship luck indeed became better, and while she is a family to her daughter, having a father might contribute a lot to her well being.
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In the first installment of the series called “Lessons From A Feng Shui Hoarder”, I talked about JM and how her friends tried to help her to do the right thing by encouraging her to get the Vajrapani Ruel amongst other amulets or Feng Shui charms so that she will straighten her life. As shared in that particular post, JM wanted to get powerful amulets to fulfill her heart’s desire. As encouraged by her friends, I will try to convince JM to get amulets that will help her straightened out her life. We made sure that we don’t lie to her, although we sometimes have to resort not directly contradicting her. As you can see, it all work out for the best, her boyfriend had the courage to end their relationship, and her husband still accepted her despite of the fact that JM claims that the baby she was carrying was that of her boyfriend. It was later proved that the boyfriend is sterile and that she was indeed still sleeping with her husband even she made it a point to tell all her friends that they have been living separately. She didn’t care whether she has 3 daughters, all she wanted was for her boyfriend to take her out of the country, and she is using her pregnancy to do just that. Unfortunately, that was the reason why she hoarded a lot of amulets, Feng Shui charms at that time. Primarily the Vajrapani Ruel.
As shown in that particular post, No amount of amulets, Feng Shui charms, or crystals can make your ‘evil’ or malicious wishes come true.
Today, allow me to share another part of the story of JM. As mentioned, JM’s friends were the one’s who contacted me because they want to help her. Since it was FSM who really knows me well, she was the one who contacted me and sort of worked with me to ensure that JM will have the right amulets so that she can straightened out her life. As shown in the first part of this post (LESSONS FROM A FENG SHUI HOARDER (1): ONE’S EVIL WISHES IS NOT MATCH TO THE POWER OF AMULETS!) by giving her the right amulets that she needs, no matter her heart wishes for something malicious, some would say evil, what really happened was really to her benefit. Now whether she will learn from it and use it for her own good is really up to her. But I believe that aside from the amulets that she got, she really owe it to her friends, especially to FSM that she didn’t had a broken family.
However, the sad truth is, aside from being thankful to her friends, when she was about to get into trouble in her company because diversion of funds for her personal use (this will be discuss more on the 3rd part of this series) she use FSM an escape goat. I won’t be able to go into details, but what JM failed to see here is that out of her selfishness and maybe bitterness because she didn’t get to go abroad with her boyfriend and make them believe that the baby she is carrying is that of his boyfriend, she suddenly turned against her friends, especially she was later told by FSM that some of the amulets are really for her to stop being physically and emotionally dependent on men other than her husband.
What she truly failed to see here is the kindness of her friends, and had she seen that kindness she would have also seen how much her friends could help her and even without amulets thru the help of her friends she can have better life.
So you see the second lesson is learn to see and accept the kindness of other people, sometimes it’s all you need and not a powerful amulet. Furthermore, JM continuous to be a lonely person because she destroyed her relationship with the true friends that she ever had. No amount of amulets can get you true friends if you are not a friend also.
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One of these bad lucks is called HO HAI, which is loosely translated as ‘accidents and mishaps’, this is a unlucky direction in the sense that continuously confronting or activating this luck by facing its corresponding direction base on your Kua number will create some bad luck that should have been otherwise preventable. For example, you can fall off the stairs and break a leg, or through carelessness might miss out on some detail with work that might create some problem with your boss or colleagues or clients.
Another bad luck is the WU KWEI, literal translation is “Five Ghost’. This may sound scary and to some extent it is really quite scary. For people who have requested me to read their Bazi, I call this luck as ‘Personal Bad Luck’, because Wu Kwei tends to attack anything that’s quite personal. For example, if you’re a parent a child might get hurt, it can also create a lot of disharmony and quarrels both in your work place and at home. You might also have problems with fire and theft.
LIU SHA or “Six Killings’ is another bad luck. This basically attacks your career and wealth luck. Meaning, you might lose a job or get into trouble because of it. It’s secondary effect is with the family, you might have a broken family or have some financial problems because of family matters like a family member that gets into gambling or an illness that will need long term care thus creating financial problems.
The last of these bad lucks is CHUEH MING, which is also directly can be translated into “Total Loss’, this may be scariest of all the bad luck direction base on your Kua number. This is considered as the most fatal of all directions, because it might create total bad luck. Continuously facing or ‘activating’ this direction might even negate your good karma and good Feng Shui.