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Amulets Are Not Everything & Mindfulness Helps A Lot!

Published Abril 17, 2018 by jptan2012

MindfulnessEveryone who reads this blog will know that I’m a firm believer of the power of amulets. And although I still get amazed with the many personal miraculous testimonies of those who have requested for amulets like the VAJRAPANI RUEL(1), SPECIAL GOLD PIYAO(1), VAISRAVANA – DZAMBHALA WEALTH AMULET, ILLNESS SUPPRESSION AMULET, SURANGGAMA MANTRA AMULET, and the FOUR DHARMAKAYA RELIC MANTRAS AND LAMA ATISHA COMBINED AMULETS, and have experienced the miracles of these amulets, the truth is I’m no longer surprised about it.

The truth is there a lot more miracles shared by my readers that I haven’t written about only because there is no time to write about them and also because as mentioned before I end this blog, the last 100 articles will focus more empowering you to do your own Feng Shui. The truth is I have already written a lot, with 900 articles that are mostly about Feng Shui or Taoism and Buddhism, all you have to do is review them carefully and you will surely learn something about doing your own Feng Shui.

Today, allow me to share with you another technic in having a better Feng Shui or in curing or fixing yourself to have good Feng Shui. And that is MINDFULNESS!

The practice of Mindfulness is actually from the Buddhist practice of meditation. Lately, a lot of people have been rediscovering the power of this practice, however, they want deviate away from the religious stuff, thus it called MINDFULNESS.

This is a very long topic, and I can’t and won’t be able to discuss them fully here on my blog, even if I used up all the remaining 97 articles to discuss it. And so, the best way for me to do is direct you to the right source. However, before I do that I would like to share with you it’s benefits and share with you some stories of my readers whom I have talked about mindfulness in person, put it into practice and benefited them a lot.

Mindfulness is really a psychological process of bringing one’s attention to the present moment. Wherein you are only aware of the moment and not the past, which is from a millisecond ago, and not of the future, which is a millisecond from now. The practice of mindfulness is a practice focusing on your experiences occurring in the present moment. The first step to do, and perhaps the major step and life process to this is called meditation.

As mentioned, mindfulness is actually meditation of the different Buddhist traditions. The Buddhists believes, which is anchored on Buddhist sutras or teachings of the Buddha (Shakyamuni Buddha) meditation or mindfulness is utilized to develop self-knowledge and wisdom that will gradually lead to enlightenment or freedom from suffering.

It is quite difficult to master this practice, and I myself, although have benefitted a lot to the practice, I can’t say I have reached a fraction of what needs to be achieved. However, needless to say, this is a process that needs to be continuously done.

Mindfulness has helped me a lot, especially when times that I can feel anger or irritation. Recently, a reader asked me whether I don’t angry for something that somebody did that affected both of us. When she asked that, I realized it was my mindfulness practice or meditation that saved me. I realized yes, I know that what a person did to us was wrong. And in a way, I’m angry or irritated. But I was so mindful of it that I didn’t react physically to that anger, instead I responded to it.meditate.jpg

But more than that, mindfulness helps us to calm down and become more positive. This is very important in times of trouble or at the season where the stars are not favorable to us.

There are many benefits to the mindfulness practice. Foremost to that is that it helps maintain our health. To those who have seen me personally will know that I tend to be on the big side. And despite of that people, even doctors, are surprised that my sugar level and my cholesterol are all good. I think this is largely to my mindfulness practice.

Aside from the physical benefit, mindfulness practice when continuously practiced will raise our vibrational energy or chi. It will make our energy higher and helps it become nearer to that of the heavenly beings, and nearer to that of the Buddhas and/or Bodhisattvas.

Recently, one of my reader who got the VAJRAPANI RUEL(2) complained that even after 2 months nothing has happened. When I called up Guru Lama to ask him about this, he told me to tell this person to do meditation, or mindfulness practice. And so, I did. Told him to go on a retreat and spend at least a week doing it. He was reluctant at first because he said he is a busy person. But Guru Lama insisted because his vibrational energy is so low and quite negative. He reluctantly agreed. 2 weeks after he had that retreat, which he continued the practice at his home, he had his first miracle.

So, what was his story. He said he was involved in the lending business. He lends money to people who are in need for a certain amount interest. In Buddhism, this is a bad kind of business because it seems to abuse people who are in need. He justified himself by saying that if he doesn’t do it, worse things might happen to these people who are in need and they might be force to do something bad. However, he was also quite ruthless in getting the interest and about delayed payments. The rules are quite strict and harsh. He justified himself by saying that if you become lax the loaners will just abuse you. And so, he did become rich.

Vajrapani Ruel

The Vajrapani Ruel looks simple, maybe even rustic, but this simple amulet is packed with a special talisman paper inside, with various ingredients, which includes Namtso Salt, soil, various herbs and plants, crystal, and a relic from a high lama. It’s important to put the ruel inside a amulet holder or something sturdy as to not ruin it. If the cloth had tear which exposes or spill the ingredients inside, the ruel becomes useless. The Vajrapani Ruel itself is only about 1 to 2 inches and it varies from one ruel to another.

Until one day he found that his son was taking drugs. He was told by four people, including Guru Lama thru me, that this is because of his karma because of his business. This I told him without even asking him or knowing what was the nature of his business. And so, he decided he needs a miracle to find his missing son, who run away from home, so he can have him rehabilitated, and for him to be able to put up another business. The problem is he doesn’t know what kind of business he’ll put up. All his adult life all he did was his lending business. That’s the reason why he got the VAJRAPANI RUEL(3).

Two weeks after that retreat his son went home asking for his help so that he can be rehabilitated. And a few days after an acquaintance approached him to propose a business!!! Isn’t these are what he as asking for?

Another story is that of Gemma. Gemma is a regular employee who requested for the SPECIAL GOLD PIYAO(2) (Piyao is also spelled as or called Pi Yao, Pixiu, Pi Xiu, Pixie, Pi Xie). She literally had to wait for her salary before she was able to get the SPECIAL GOLD PIYAO(3). Everybody who knows Gemma would describe Gemma as a kind-hearted person with a foul mouth. She loves to curse and when she gets angry she raises her voice to the maximum level without her noticing it, and she might say spiteful words, spiteful things without her realizing it. And then after she is left wondering as to why the person at the receiving end of her anger and tirade is really hurt. When she got the SPECIAL GOLD PIYAO(4), Guru Lama told me to tell Gemma to meditate (mindfulness practice), if she does it, she will receive her miracle in less than a week, otherwise, it will take her months before she experiences her miracle because her vibrational energy is low because of her temper and her love for cursing.

I told her about it, and told her how to do it. Clarified with her that she should really be serious about her mindfulness practice.  She said she will because she badly needs to have money ASAP because her second son needs to undergo a medical surgery.

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This is a special gold Piyao designed by Guru Lama and made of blessed gold.

She must have done what Guru Lama said because exactly a week after she started her mindfulness practice and after she got the SPECIAL GOLD PIYAO(5) she received not one, not two, not three, but four good news about money. First, she was given a raise. Second, her ex-husband sent a big amount of money because he was not able to give money for their kids for 3 years, and Gemma ever bothered asking for it and all of a sudden, he sends a big amount. Three, her sister found out the condition of Gemma’s son and so she also sent money. Fourth, her son’s doctor has informed her that he will waive his professional fee.

Gemma badly needs his money. She gambled with the SPECIAL GOLD PIYAO(6), and followed what Guru Lama instructed her to do. After that she suddenly found herself having more than enough money for his son’s surgery and having some extra for other expenses. She ends up having some savings.

You see, clearly these two story points out that amulets are not everything. With the practice of mindfulness, things can get a lot faster. In fact, with continuous practice of mindfulness, you may find yourself no longer in need of an amulet.

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Other than the magic inscriptions at the bottom both designs are basically the same.

As I mentioned earlier, mindfulness / meditation is a topic that is too broad to discuss here, in fact, even if I dedicate all the remaining posts to this topic I still won’t be able to discuss it really well. There will not be enough space and time. And so, allow me to share with you some books that you can read to help you understand this topic better and also to help you start with your practice.

Some of these books are secular practice of mindfulness. They have taken away Buddhism away from it. For me, it’s a good start.

The books are the following:

  1. Mindfulness by Joseph Goldstein
  2. 10% Happier by Dan Harris
  3. Thoughts Without A Thinker by Mark Epstein
  4. 10% Happier, Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics by Dan Harris
  5. Going to Pieces Without Falling Apart by Mark Epstein
  6. When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron
  7. Real Happiness by Sharon Salzberg
  8. Real Love by Sharon Salzberg
  9. One Dharma by Joseph Goldstein
  10. Where You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life by Jon Kabat – Zinn

The above books should be good enough to get you started. Hope you start your mindfulness practice soon!

If you want to know more about the Special Gold Piyao, please read the following posts:

  1. A Special Gold Piyao Empowered By A Crystal to Invite Wealth Luck!
  2. Understanding the Special Gold Piyao: Your Questions Answered!
  3. Wealth Luck Comes in with the Special Gold Piyao: A Personal Testimony of A Reader!
  4. Wealth Miracles Due to the Special Gold Piyao!
  5. Increase in Salary and a Financial Bonus: A Special Wealth Luck Received By A Reader in Singapore After Wearing the Special Gold Piyao for Just One Day!

You can also read the following posts about the Vajrapani Ruel:

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Anger Doesn’t Create Negative Karma, Anger is Negative Karma!

Published Nobyembre 24, 2017 by jptan2012

Recently, a reader who got the Vajrapani Ruel(1) got in touch with me again. I was actually surprised to receive her call because since she got the Vajrapani Ruel(2) she never got in touch with me again, except for one time that she told me that the Vajrapani Ruel(3) is working for her. When I asked for the detail of her story and also if it was possible for her to write about it, she just ignored my messages. I did try to call her back but she didn’t answer my calls neither she answered my messages.

And so, I was surprised that she called me a few days ago (the time of writing is most likely different from the time of posting) to inquire about my welfare. But amidst the hi(s) and hellos I knew that she wanted to talk to me about something. So I told her my observation and said that I feel she wants to talk to me about something but that she may be uncomfortable about it.

Because of that prompting on my part she started to open up, but she has a lot of preamble before she got to the point, and so I had to be patient with her also and I simply had to let her talk.

According to Celia, the Vajrapani Ruel(4) indeed worked for her, and she has now a better life. But somehow, she seems quite unhappy.

Celia, requested for the Vajrapani Ruel(5) because her husband left her, and her in – laws who has never liked her are quite happy about it and they never hid the fact. Their two children also went to live her in – laws while her husband went abroad. Since she has gotten married she has never worked and so she finds it really difficult to start anew.

It was thru her mother who follows and regularly reads my blog that she found out about the Vajrapani Ruel(6). And so she decided to take the risk and invest on the Vajrapani Ruel(7). Celia shares that indeed the Vajrapani Ruel(8) worked for her, and chanting Bodhisattva Vajrapani’s mantra – OM VAJRAPANI HUM – did worked for her. Her children are now back with her, and she now has her own small business. After working for 6 months for a company of a friend, she was given a chance to open her own business and so she claims that it was obviously because of the Vajrapani Ruel(9) that she got all these things in order in such a short time.

However, there is one concern, she feels that her happiness is not complete. She said while she is happy that there is a reversal in her luck, she feels cheated that her ex-husband and his now live – in partner seems to be quite happy and doing well also despite of the things that they did to her. And she wonders why one of her wishes has not come to fruition and that is that her husband will leave his live – in partner.

After listening to him, I asked him whether she sincerely still wants her husband back, she initially said yes, and clarified that for the sake of her kids they have to be whole again. However, after much discussion, it was clear that she just wants her husband back to revalidate herself and to spite the other woman and her in – laws who has always seems to have a strong dislike for her.

She then asked me as to what negative karma she has that she seems unable to forgive her ex-husband and his live – in partner. I don’t have answer to this question, and called up my Guru Lama about this. Guru Lama then clarified, her anger is not creating negative karma, it is her anger that is her negative karma.

Isn’t this true not just for her but for everybody? No amulets can make us happy if we continue to harbor anger, envy, and bitterness in our hearts. Whether these feelings create negative karma or not for us depends on how we act on these emotions. However, it is obvious that these emotions are some sort of negative karma because as long as we harbor them we can never truly be happy. So I suggest that once we have these feelings we must immediately deal with it and expunge it from our life.

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Witchcraft: It Is Not What We Think It Is But It Is More Common Than We Think It Is (Part 2)

Published Nobyembre 14, 2016 by jptan2012

In my preceding post, I talked about how witchcraft is more common than we think. In today’s post I would like to talk about as to how easy it is to do witchcraft and who can do it.

The truth is some people can do witchcraft even without them knowing it. This is more commonly called as Evil Eye or Usog in Filipino. However, for the purpose of this article, let’s focus on the type of witchcraft or sorcery that is done on purpose. Who are the types of people who can do it?

For witchcraft or sorcery to be effective there must be some kind of emotions involve. This emotion is usually either love or anger or both.

Witchcraft or sorcery usually connotes a lot of negative image because we always think that witchcraft is meant to do something bad or harm to a person. Unfortunately, this is the most common reason why witchcraft is done or why people seek to have witchcraft or sorcery is done. However, witchcraft or sorcery is really simply an act wherein you interfere in the flow of energies and set out to put an energy that is meant to manifest physically. Having said that witchcraft or sorcery is simply an act, whether it is good or bad depends on the intention and the final output of the energy set out by the one who propagate or initiates it.

In Taoism, the religion, a Taoist priest is almost always familiar with witchcraft. The burning of Fu or Talisman papers are in so many ways an act of witchcraft wherein you call on an higher entity to set out a task. In my previous posts, I have discussed that in Taoism, the Gods, which are the Heavenly Beings in Buddhism, are like humans in a way that they still have temperaments, they get angry, the love, they get tired. They can also do wrong things. What a Taoist priest or a Taoist medium (somebody who is familiar to tap into the powers of this beings) does is they set out to call on these beings to do their wishes. Sometimes, these wishes may not be very right, or to put it simply I have seen Taoist mediums that may set out to do more harm. Like the story I shared on the preceding post, a Taoist priest or medium is involve in giving Diane’s mother – in – law the tool for her to have power over her son’s and husband’s will. Whether the said Taoist medium knows the intentions are pure or not, although I think if the Taoist medium is powerful enough to make such a tool, he or she will also be powerful enough to see the intentions, is an entirely different matter.

The truth is it is open knowledge amongst most Chinese and Taoist that a Taoist priest or Taoist medium who are familiar in tapping the powers of entities can do either good witchcraft or bad witchcraft.

Having said that, if one is familiar on how to tap into the other realms it is easy to do witchcraft or sorcery. In fact, sometimes you don’t even need to have the technical knowledge, sometimes all you need is a very strong emotion and a strong intent.

You can read the other posts on this series:

  1. Witchcraft: It Is Not What You Think It Is But It Is More Common Than We Think It Is (Part 1)
  2. Witchcraft: It Is Not What You Think It Is But It Is More Common Than We Think It Is (Part 2)
  3. Witchcraft: It Is Not What You Think It Is But It Is More Common Than We Think It Is (Part 3)
  4. Five Ways to Protect Yourself From Evil Eye and/or Witchcraft.

For questions, comments, and suggestions please email sanaakosirickylee@gmail.com

 

Witchcraft: It’s Not What You Think But It Is More Common Than We Think It Is (Part 1)

Published Nobyembre 11, 2016 by jptan2012
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A few weeks ago a reader shared with me that he thinks he is a victim of witchcraft done by his ex – wife. Not really an expert in identifying witchcraft or sorcery and so I dismissed it and told him that it is not my expertise but will just ask my Guru Lama about it. Honestly, at that time I honestly thought that it was just a mild hallucination and desire to blame somebody else for what is happening. GP if you get to read this, I’m sorry for thinking that way. But really there are a lot of people who thinks that they are being a victim of witchcraft or sorcery but a lot of times it really just is their own bad karma or bad Feng Shui.

However, I went to ask my Guru Lama about GP and true enough according to my Guru Lama GP is a victim of witchcraft done thru a medium (a witch or somebody who is familiar with it) by his ex – wife.

My Guru Lama, sort of reminded me what I should know already by this time. That is WITCHCRAFT or SORCERY is not really how it is portrayed on TV or movies, wherein the witch is an ugly girl with a sharp nose, messy hair, with a cauldron and a voodoo doll. Although it is possible that some of them uses a voodoo doll. My Guru Lama also said that witchcraft or sorcery is more common that we think. To stress the lesson to me and to remind me not to be judgmental my Guru Lama reminded of some of the cases that I encountered that involves witchcraft or sorcery. Although some of these we didn’t really call witchcraft but if you analyze it, it is really witchcraft.

Allow me to share some the cases here on this article.

One of the cases involves DAS. For the purpose of this article let’s call her Diane. Diane was married to a Chinese guy who seems to be totally controlled by his mother, Diane’s mother – in – law. To make the long story short, Diane’s husband, let’s just call him ES, got a gift from his mother. The gift is a faux diamond set in silver. Aside from ES, his father, Diane’s father – in – law, also got one. Now the question here is, why were the other children and Diane and the grandchildren were not given the same pendant by the mother – in – law given that the reason given by the mother – in – law is that it is for protection. She is also very well capable giving all of them the same pendant because (1) it doesn’t look very expensive, and (2) the mother – in – law is really reach that she can afford to give one to all the members of the family even if it cause (exaggeration) around one hundred thousand Philippine peso each. However, Diane noticed that since having the pendant, her husband and father – in – law seems to always bow to the will of her mother – in – law, who totally dislike having another independent, self – reliant woman In their house like Diane. ES and his father have also a lot of times grown to rely on Diane, something that her mother – in – law detests. My Guru Lama and my Feng Shui teacher and a Taoist Priest in Hong Kong confirmed that the pendant given by Diane’s mother – in – law to ES and to her father – in – law is a way or means to control them. A lot of people can argue that this can be just a product of an over imaginative mind. That’s possible. But explain why when the ES stops wearing the pendant, he stopped being his mother’s pawn.

Another story is that of a married wife. BY is a happily married wife until he found out that her husband had an affair with two different women. When he was found out, the husband professed his love for BY and his family and promised that he will stop seeing his mistresses. They didn’t have any problem with the first mistress, but the second mistress is out to get him back. And so there are times that the husband seems to be not himself. He will all of a sudden feel anxious and feel as if the girl is calling him. There are times that he will just stare into space and seems to be somewhere else. It was later on confirmed by my Guru Lama and another psychic consulted by BY that this second mistress has an employed the services of a witch to help bring back BY’s husband to her.

There is yet another story of another reader whose son is madly fell in love with a older woman of what can be considered is of an ill repute. The woman works as a hospitality girl; she is a kept woman of a politician. When the mother of the guy found out about the relationship, she set out to break them apart. The son came to his senses and went back to his mom’s loving arms. That’s when the problem and change in his son started. According to the mom, his son started staring into space; there are times that he seems to be awake without any ‘spirit’ inside him. Still there are times that the son would act like the woman is the most important thing or most important person in his life. Still there re times that he will sleepwalk, something that he never did before he got involved with the said woman, he will walk out of his house. But whenever he will come to his senses, he will go back to his mom’s house. However, there are times, that he himself doesn’t understand why it seems that he is unable to control himself and stop thinking about the woman. His mom brought him to see a psychiatrist, thinking that he might be depress because of the break – up. He end up seeing two different psychiatrist who saw him several times, when he was in control of his senses. They concluded that there is nothing wrong with him and that he knows that the woman is no good for him. However, still all of a sudden he would look for the woman and act strange. Until one day, he sleep walked going to the house of the woman. When his brother found out that he was not in bed, he called his mom and dad, and his mom knew that he must have gone to the house of the woman. They followed their instinct and went to see the woman. They were met by the woman’s mother who told them to leave. They refuse and asked the barangay officials to help and intercede, but since their son is already 20 years old, technically speaking he is an adult and if it was his free will to be there they cannot do anything. Still they insist to see his son. The woman then came out to talk to them to assure them that their son is speaking soundly and wanted to be with her. The mom refuses to give up on his son, and so she and her husband continued to argue and insist on seeing the son. All of a sudden, their son came running out crying and said he doesn’t understand why he went to the house of the woman. He went home with them. It was then that the mother thought that it maybe witchcraft. This was confirmed by an albularyo (Filipino Shaman) who tried to break the power of the witchcraft, but the sleep walking, the depressed moods, the staring into space moments continue to happen until the mom having read my blog contacted me. I in turn contacted my Guru Lama who also confirmed that it is witchcraft.

Still, there is another story of another reader whose child kept on getting sick, really sick that she has to drop out of school. This was a big blow to her because this happened right after when her problem with her husband just got solved. You see her husband fell in love with another woman, a very rich woman, but even before she found out about it her husband ended the affair with the other woman, she found out about it because he admitted the affair to her. This created a temporary friction between the two of them because she cannot fathom the fact the he betrayed her love and trust, plus it doesn’t help that the other woman seems bent on destroying their relationship and still pursues the guy. In the end their love won and they patch things up. This was when their only child started getting sick. They initially unable to find out the disease, but it was later found out that their child was suffering from leukemia. They sought the help of some of the best doctors in UST Hospital, but the child seems to be getting worse and is not responding to chemotherapy as well as the doctors expect. They were told by a friend who is supposed to be psychic that there is witchcraft involved. This was when they contacted me, and I in turn contacted my Guru Lama who confirmed that indeed witchcraft is involved. By this time, they have forgotten about the other woman, but my Guru Lama is the one who brought it up and said the other woman wants them to run into a big problem and run into financial problem, to come to a point where in the husband will go back to her and ask for financial help. Remember the other woman is really rich.

These are just some of the stories that my Guru Lama reminded me. And yes, I realized that Witchcraft or Sorcery is more common that we thought it is. It is more accessible that we thought of. We should take away our stereotypes against witchcraft or sorcery but we should also realize that it is more common that we realize.

And so going back to GP. He is indeed suffering from witchcraft. To make things worst, his second wife, and daughter from his second wife are getting affected also. GP himself started getting ill and was diagnosed with a heart ailment. My Guru Lama confirmed he is being attacked through witchcraft by his ex – wife. The ex – wife seems to have contacted a relative who is familiar with it. She is doing this simply because she wants GP and his family to suffer to the point that GP go back to her begging for forgiveness. GP’s case is work in progress; my Guru Lama is helping break the witchcraft done on him. Let’s all pray it works.

Diane’s case is also still a work in progress. I lost touch with BY so don’t know what really happened. But the son who fell in love with the woman of ill repute is now totally sane and has gotten rid of the power of the witchcraft over him. He is now working and earning a good sum of money every month. After a series of chemotherapy who at the beginning she was found not to respond well on the said medicines, the child who suffered from witchcraft because of her father’s other woman is now doing well and is back in school. The cure recommended by my Guru Lama varies, but usually involves powerful amulets.

But looking back at the stories, you will see the witchcraft involves people who have some relationships with the one who propagated the witchcraft. Why? This is because witchcraft or sorcery is more effective if there is an emotional or even binding relationship between the one who propagates it and the victim. By binding relationship I refer to either marriage or parent and child. A strong emotion is also a powerful conduit, so love and extreme anger are strong conduit. In the case of the child who had leukemia, she was not involve, but either the love or anger of the other woman to her dad is the conduit, and in turn that conduit is extended through the love of his dad for her.

You will notice also that most of the witchcraft involves a woman. It’s not because they are more evil but it is because a woman’s emotions is naturally stronger than that of a man, and emotion acts a conduit to make the witchcraft more powerful. Having said that it doesn’t mean that a man cannot be a conduit for witchcraft to be effective.

You can read the other posts on this series:

  1. Witchcraft: It Is Not What You Think It Is But It Is More Common Than We Think It Is (Part 1)
  2. Witchcraft: It Is Not What You Think It Is But It Is More Common Than We Think It Is (Part 2)
  3. Witchcraft: It Is Not What You Think It Is But It Is More Common Than We Think It Is (Part 3)
  4. Five Ways to Protect Yourself From Evil Eye and/or Witchcraft.

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Anger is a Feng Shui Poison…

Published Disyembre 12, 2012 by jptan2012

Being somebody who got quite a temper, believe me when I say that anger is one of the worst poisons that can destroy our luck and/or our good Feng Shui.Anger

In Buddhism, it is said that there are three poisons of existence, and these are IGNORANCE, ATTACHMENT, and ANGER. Shakyamuni Buddha (also speeled as Sakyamuni) said that these three are the root of all sufferings; I must add though that I think anger is the most destructive of all three poisons of existence.

How many of us have experience for anger to cause us a big problem. This may be problem with our boss, with our employee, with a family member or with a partner. Chances are most if not all has experienced this, it may be in varying degree, but I bet most of us in this world has experienced this. Furthermore, anger might also cost us to lose our job, to have a broken family, or for some to have a destroyed future. Just about a week or two ago, there was news on TV that told of a father who beat his daughter and even put her into flame just because he was angry. When asked why did he do that to his daughter, he said he lost control and because he knows that his wife loves their daughter very much, and that when he became really angry he set out to destroy the thing that his wife loves most.

Anger is a very powerful emotion, and it is something that we need to control. It is always easier said than done.

I remember when I was still not really into Buddhism and Feng Shui; I had a fight with my sister because of a small matter. We end up not talking to each other for a year, although we have long forgotten what we fought about, but the anger was still there lingering in our hearts. So you see, I’m sharing this because it also showed that anger is such an irrational emotion that can linger for a long time.

The web is full of different suggestions on how we can deal with anger. Go to the bookstore and there are a lot of books talking about how can one control over their emotions. This post is not about that, I suggest you go to the bookstore and search the web for this helpful suggestions. But whatever you do one thing is pretty obvious, the decision to control anger should come from within us, and should be decided upon with a firm determination. That’s how I started dealing with it. Now, I find myself being able to control over my temper better.

In Buddhism and Feng Shui, there are a lot of things that can help us be calmer and help us control our temper better. Allow me to share some of them here.

PRAYER WHEEL. Just a few days ago, I talked about the Prayer Wheel and how it helped me handle a delicate situation. The post is entitled – THE POWER OF A PRAYER WHEEL: A PERSONAL TESTIMONY. However, a Prayer Wheel because it has a lot of Mantras inside it also has a calming effect with the people around it, or for those who wear one around their neck. Do make a habit of spinning your Prayer Wheel to help activate the mantras inside it

I personally have a hand held, table top, and pendant Prayer Wheel. A Prayer Wheel has a very good calming effect.

I personally have a hand held, table top, and pendant Prayer Wheel. A Prayer Wheel has a very good calming effect.

IMAGE OF KUAN YIN (also spelled as QUAN YIN). The image of Kuan Yin or the Bodhisattva of Compassion, either when displayed at home or worn as a pendant also has a very calming effect. Just simply having the image of the Kuan Yin / Quan Yin will bestow upon us some of the attributes of Kuan Yin. Kuan Yin is the female manifestation of Avalokitesvara.Quan Yin

CHANT A MANTRA. Chanting a mantra also helps a lot in helping us control our temper. Other than its effect of prolonging the reaction, much like when we count one to ten, it also imbibe us with the calming effect of the mantra itself.

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